The former stewardesses of Tiger Airlines still reminisce about their experiences with those brave soldiers, coming and going to Vietnam – a long time ago. Read about what they talk about at their reunions. To us, they were all beauty queens!
In 1969, during the Vietnam War, a 21-year-old Seattle woman saw a job ad for a California cargo airline called the Flying Tiger Line that had a large presence in San Francisco. The company said it needed flight attendants. Travel the world, the ad said.
That sounded good to Linda Greenwalt Foster, who had just dropped out of college and was looking for an adventure. She had no idea what the job entailed until she arrived for the interview and a man with the airline asked what she thought of the war.
“And he said, ‘Well, can you put all that aside when you’re on the airplane and taking care of these boys?’” Foster recalled.
She learned then that the Flying Tiger Line, also known as Flying Tigers, specialized in troop transports. The company had a contract to fly U.S. servicemen into Vietnam and to bring troops home after their tours were complete. Flying Tigers was a mechanism of the war she opposed.
Despite her personal beliefs, Foster reasoned that “nobody needed better care” than men heading to a war or coming back from one, and she decided to sign on. But nothing could have prepared her for what it was like to be a flight attendant at Flying Tigers during the golden era of aviation — a job so fabulous and exciting on the one hand and emotionally brutal on the other that it transformed the lives of hundreds of young women like her who were hired during the war, forcing them to confront the realities of Vietnam in ways they never expected, and bonding them to each other for decades to come.
On Wednesday morning in Sacramento, as many as 30 former flight attendants for the airline are reuniting to honor servicemen killed in the war. During a ceremony at the California Vietnam Veterans Memorial, the women, many now in their 70s, will also mark the disappearance of Flying Tigers Flight 739, which vanished over the Pacific in 1962 along with 107 passengers and crew, including four flight attendants.
“It’s a way to look back,” said one woman planning to attend, Ann Price Montgomery, who joined Flying Tigers in 1968. “It’s such a part of history, and our own personal history.”
“We were there to take care of our passengers,” Foster said, “and have the best time we could.” As it turned out, they excelled at both.
The big, glamorous airline back then was Pan Am. The women working the cabin on those flights were still known as stewardesses, not flight attendants, and they walked like fashion models down the aisles.
“That was not us,” recalled Andee Reingold Wright, a San Francisco native who was 21 when she started with Flying Tigers in 1967. She laughed. “When you went to school for Pan Am, they showed you how to do your makeup and your hair. With Tigers, they said, OK, make sure your hair isn’t longer than your shoulders, and get on the plane.”
Founded in 1945 by a group of pilots who had flown in World War II, Flying Tigers was America’s first major cargo airline, a seat-of-the-pants operation that hauled freight on Canadian turboprop planes. It hooked up with the Pentagon to carry troops during the Korean War, and by the mid-1960s the airline was flying tens of thousands of soldiers into Vietnam at a time before the U.S. public was paying much attention to the conflict unfolding there. Tigers suddenly needed bodies to work those long overseas flights, and when it put out calls for flight attendants, adventurous women answered.
Marilyn Breen was 24 when a girlfriend called her from Japan, bragging that she had gotten a job with a different charter airline and was now sitting in Tokyo having her nails done for $1.50. Breen wanted to travel and supported the war — she believed then that it was about fighting communism — and after she saw a Flying Tigers want ad in The Chronicle, she soon found herself in flight attendant school, wearing the Tigers uniform of a grayish-blue skirt suit with black pumps and white gloves. The training had little to do with hospitality, focusing instead on emergency procedures, like how to ditch a plane after a crash or what to do if the plane drew gunfire.
But soon after they started working troop transports to Southeast Asia, the women realized that the job required a whole different set of skills.
They’d usually start at Travis Air Force Base outside of San Francisco or McChord Field in Washington, picking up more than 200 fresh-faced, uniformed servicemen from the Army, Navy, Air Force and Marines. From there the plane, often a stretch DC-8, would fly west to Anchorage, then to Japan, then to the Philippines or Vietnam, dropping the troops off at military bases.
They were long, boisterous flights full of bravado and joking — the men going off to war were trying to psych themselves up. But the flight attendants realized that many were understandably scared. In quieter moments, men cracked: a lieutenant crying softly in his seat, admitting that his wife had just given birth to a baby he might never see again; a young man’s hand shaking as he reached for a cup of milk. The flight attendants, although very young themselves, couldn’t believe how young the troops were — just 17 and 18 in some cases. “I was 24,” Breen recalled. “I was old as dirt to them.”
Many flight attendants struggled at first to contain their own emotions. They wanted to cry but stifled the impulse. It was important to stay upbeat, to act like every one of the men was coming home. So they tried to keep it light. They played cards with the guys, laughed with them. The young men would leave their patches, their names, their addresses, their rosary beads and ask the crew members to write to them while they were in Vietnam. During the last minutes of each flight, the women remember, the cabin would become eerily quiet.
Meanwhile, the flight attendants were becoming like a family. They were thrown together all the time — on the planes, in Saigon hotels sipping cocktails and at officers’ clubs on overseas military bases, where guys bought them drinks. Because they were young and energetic, they could work a 5½-hour flight from Japan to Vietnam, spend an hour on the ground, turn around and fly 5½ hours back to Japan, then take a quick shower and then go out dancing at a go-go club.
“And there were parties every single day and every single night,” Foster remembered. “Room parties and roof parties and lobby parties and — oh, my goodness.”
The women say it’s what helped them keep their sanity, a support network that allowed them to face the heartbreak of the job as the true cost of the war emerged. “We began to realize — OK, these guys are going off to die,” Breen recalled. One day in Vietnam, waiting on the tarmac before a homeward-bound flight, she saw men loading body bags into the belly of the plane.
If the flights to Vietnam were emotional, the flights back home could be tense in a different way. The men were superstitious that the plane would crash — it would be just their luck to die in a dumb accident on the verge of getting home. Sometimes, when the wheels pulled up on takeoff, the whole plane would burst out in yells and clapping.
“That was always the fun part, to take them out of there,” remembered Gael Okicich, who flew with Tigers for 25 years. But some homeward-bound passengers were belligerent, unpredictable. Others slept for hours, exhausted and often traumatized from their experiences in Vietnam. The flight attendants learned not to wake them, knowing the men might leap up with a start, imagining they were still back in the war.
As the war worsened, and the airline continued hauling scared young men into Vietnam and bringing broken men out, the Flying Tigers crews found themselves wrestling with anger, confusion and sadness.
For some the experience changed their political beliefs, although they tried to keep politics off the plane. Breen went from being “gung ho” about the war to suspecting the government was lying and thinking the war was a mistake. Foster’s opposition to the war only intensified; she attended anti-war meetings and demonstrations on her days off. Others supported the war, sympathizing with the soldiers and resenting those who scorned their service. And many didn’t know what to think, caught between respect for the military and horror over the fates of the boys on their flights.
“It was really a struggle to decide what was right or what was wrong,” said Okicich. “Nobody wanted to take anybody over there who wasn’t coming back.”
They coped, as always, by leaning on each other. And after the fall of Saigon in 1975, when the war ended, they remained connected. Many of the women continued to fly, either with Tigers or other airlines; more than a few married Tigers pilots and started families. Eventually, in 1988, FedEx bought the airline’s parent company, absorbing its routes and bringing the rough-and-tumble era of cargo aviation to a close. But the women’s bond outlasted the death of the airline that brought them together.
Jason Fagone is a San Francisco Chronicle staff writer. Email: jason.fagone@sfchronicle.com Twitter: @jfagone
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Great article and I do so remember that flight and not having even an idea what was waiting for me .. I was Infantry so I knew I had reason to be worried, but these ladies put us all at ease, as much as was possible .. one of the truly great memories I’m thankful to have ..
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We went out to the airstripvery early in the morning in a vehicle. Not one of us said a word in the dark as we watched the plane sitting there with jet engines idling. No lights on the plane in the dark. we sat silently in the darkness almost trying to will ourselves into that jet thru the air. All of us silently got on the plane ,each of us finding a seat. I sat on the left side isle with a window seat just to the rear edge of the left wing. Not one of us said a word. Finally the plane started to move down the runway faster and faster. each of us inside were scared because for the first time non of us were wearing helmets, flack jackets, no weapons or ammo. A very vulnerable feeling with out a weapon. Afraid that at any moment a rocket or mortor could could take the jet down.
The jet went faster, higher, finally the landing gear came up into the plane. Out of rocket range. Then all the guys just could not be held down by the stewerdesses and they did not even try to quiet the guys. We were goin up and up , the war down below, falling away now far behind us. I only just sat there, silently , the flight home to Fort Lewis. I sat looking out the window the whole flight home, never said a word. Now going to the USA which I had forgotten about. Know now that I was stunned , medical shock, at suddenly the war down below, behind me , was gone. Was processed out of the Army at Fort Lewis, got a military standby flight for$11. and flew to Portland ,Oregon. Gotoff the jet and was greated by relatives. /stilI could not talk or say a word, still stunned that in one day went from war to out of Army and nowback in the house at home. Put on the clothing and shoes that I had been wearing befor going to war. I just stood there in my bedroom looking out the window for a very long time,saying to myself “Did that really happen……??? … Was I really in a real war…??? Did it really happen to me …?????!!!!”
Thank you stewardesses.
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Wonderful memories. Flying from Clark AFB to Guam refueling then on to Travis AFB and Home. Wheels up lots of cheering and hope. Joe Namath, Jim Otto, and, Marv Fleming on our returning flight after spending time visiting the wounded Vietnam soldiers at several hospitals. It truly was a great feeling being headed home.
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I think it is great! I made that trip also in Jan,1967. I flew out of Travis Air Force Base and was on my way to Thailand. I was USAF and made that stop in Alaska. The next stop was Saigon where we left off troops. While there I recall them telling us that there are enemy at the end of the runway and when we take off we are pulling up as fast as we can to keep from being hit. We of course did not get his and flew on to Bangkok where we transferred to a military aircraft and flew down to U-T a B-52 base. I spent one year there and flew 15 missions in Vietnam, 8 north and 7 south.
Mel Beers ret first sergeant .
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This article is an important read. I very much enjoyed it and had no idea that those very attractive young ladies felt that way about us. I was so wrapped up in my own personal trauma that I thought they were being so nice because they were paid to, not because they wanted to. I now have a “new” group of Vietnam vets to admire and respect. Thank you all.
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Very nice ,brings back feeling that are mostly good ones.Thank you ladies.I flew into DANANG twice the 2nd fight was with the Flying Tigars and a year later they flew me back to the states.
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I know the feelings, having done the flights in ’68 & ’70. Until now, I mostly ignored the efforts of these people (especially the attendants – they saw, heard & felt all of it). Never again! Thanks, DRS
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After all the things i remember about my viet nam year , i never remembered about the flight to or from .
I think i was numb, both ways.
This was a very good and interesting article.
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War touches more people than the veterans who fought in it. I recall the flight I took into Vietnam and even more than the flight I took home. I don’t remember the faces of the flight attendants…probably because I was so overwhelmed by my own emotions going to war and coming home. Perhaps, I don’t remember them because they were doing such a great job of quietly supporting each of us, letting us deal with our personal feelings in our own way. Looking back, I owe them my deep thanks for doing their job so splendidly despite the emotional roller-coaster they must have been on. Thank you!
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I have just relived a very important part of my young life, thru these articles and the loving responses. I was a Flying Tiger Flight Attendant for 5 years, and those many experiences flying into Tan Son Nhut. changed me for the better – many moons ago. The young men on the way over were full of Bravado and Spirit, and many on the return trip were just grateful to finally be going home and overcome with gratitude about leaving that hell hole in one piece.
It was the first time I was truly surrounded around military men, and I was overwhelmed by their commitment and belief in their mission. It broke my heart the way they were treated a few years later, especially knowing I had been in attendance on their flight into a war zone, and wondered how they had faired in the return to the USA.
To this day, I send emails to friends who are Vets, and the young people in the airports who are recognizable by their uniforms – and sincerely Thank them for thier Service.
If not for you, the World would be much worse off.
Thank You For Your Service, and It was my honor to help make your trip a little better.
Ardith (Vignati) Willner
Flying Tiger Attendant
June ’69
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Ardith, I know we GI’s weren’t always “gentlemen”, but thank you so very much for all that you and your sister attendants did for us on our flights too and from that hell hole of a war in SAE. I know you don’t remember many of our faces, as we no longer remember yours, but we thank you for taking care for us. And welcome home.
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SOBER JOURNEY
The plane very quiet,
one of conscious unease.
High over the Pacific,
a light greenish blue
meets a very pale blue,
merging Ocean and Sky.
An aspect of nowhere,
a version of Purgatory,
this a definitive journey
where we are found aloft
between heaven and hell.
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JW, beautiful poem. Thanks! And yes, we had a flight load of “pucker factor” and apprehension. We all wanted to get home, but wondered if this old crate could get us there. There was more to this exciting excursion. The food on the airplane had to be thrown away because there was no refrigeration on the aircraft for over 48 hours. However, Kadena was not able to resupply the galley but the crew got a lot of junk food to hold us over till we got to Tokyo where we were off-loaded again and the plane was serviced. From Tokyo we flew to Anchorage where we were grounded another 18 to 20 hours due to a snow storm and for some reason, Anchorage did not have deicing capability. Yes, it was a memorable 4 day flight.
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Touching essay. First time over in July ’68 I was a 29 year old Warrant Officer pilot and flew on a Seaboard World stretch-8 (DC-8-50) that was only a couple of years old but what I remember about the flight was that the plane was dirty and worn and the flight attendants were older than me. They were cordial but standoffish. My
return home flight in July ’69 was on a Flying Tigers stretch-8. It was obvious the airplane had been used a lot, but it was clean and the attendants were friendly and upbeat. Don’t remember who flew me over my second trip in Dec. ’71. What I do remember is that the plane had a very unpleasant odor and the food was cold. My return flight in ’72 was on Flying Tigers that started out with engine problems on the ramp in Tan Son Nhut. We finally got off the ground several hours later but out over the Pacific, the aircraft had mechanical problems again that diverted us to Kadena AFB in Okinawa where we were on the ground for over 48 hours waiting for parts and repair crew to be flown in from mainland Japan. To kill time many of us went to the Officer’s Club, with the flight attendants in tow, and proceeded to party. We were eventually invited to leave the club and told to not come back – Welcome Home from the USAF in Kadena. Flying Tiger aircraft were getting old and worn, but their flight attendants were still top notch. Thank you Jason for a story well told.
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That’s funny. Not only told to leave, but not to come back. Like you were going to hang around.
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I never heard of Tiger air until I read this article. If I remember correctly I went over on Continental and came back on United. I do remember the door opening and it was like a blast furnace! The flight attendant standing at the top said ” see you in a year, I’ll be wearing the same dress. ” When we got ready to land at Bien Hoa airbase the pilot said there would be a slight delay because they were shelling the airfield. Not a good way to start the year!
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Great article; Thanks. It brought back memories from ’68.
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Thanks for the wonderful article. I remember well my Flying Tiger trips. I extended in Vietnam so that I could get out early. The extension allowed a 30 trip home so I had 2 Tiger flights in and 2 out. All the ladies on all the flights were outstanding, especially the ones on the flight home that handled some of the rude guys in isle seats. My most vivid memory is of the landing approach into Bien Hoa Airport. The decent angle brought the entire plane to silence while they considered the reason for that radical decent. It was a vivid reminder we were entering a war zone.
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Great Read, I was a 26 year old man when I went to that war, I remember not sleeping on the flying tiger flight back home, and the stewardess, sat and talked to me as everyone else was sleeping, I thought the stewardess was a nice person that was concerned about my not sleeping and ask why. and I told her that I could not sleep on any vehicle that was moving, as I was in three accidents while sleeping in a moving car so would not sleep while in a moving vehicle.
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Very interesting. I flew over to Vietnam out of Travis October 3, 1970 on Airlift International. Landed in Saigon. I flew into Sea-Trac on Flying Tiger Airlines from Camh Rhan October 4 , 1971.
McCord was doing maintenance on the runway.
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Flying Tiger was my airline of choice.(it was the only one on the tarmac) Leaving Bien Hoa at 9:00 P.M on June 25th 1969 and arriving in Oakland CA on June 25th at 9:30 P.M. Crossing the international date line was my experience in “time travel”.
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The other airlines that that had the contract’s to take service men to that war zone in South East Asia was Seaboard World Air lines it was rumored to be own by lady bird Johnson as she was on the Board of directors of Braniff International air ways and that they and Tiger Airlines got those troop movement contracts back in the day; The old boy network was in bed with the men sitting in the white house:
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Flying Tiger 707 (March ’68) from Travis to Anchorage (refuel), on to Okinawa (refuel), and finally to Bien Hoa. Remember the illumination flares as we were coming in on final as the sun had not come up yet. Remember the pungent fish smell and heat as we deplaned.
Departed Bien Hoa (21 Apr 69)) on Flying Tiger (Stretch 8) with fuel stop in Japan. Arrived Travis in daylight and was struck by the absence of bomb craters from my aerial view.
Sweet Jesus, I was back in the USA ;
Thank you Flying Tiger!
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A great story, even made me cry, vaguely remembering the trips each way, to and from Vietnam. My return flight was one of those that cheered as we lifted off. Some years ago I made contact with one of those stewardesses and found out about their reunions. I’m still trying to figure out how to coordinate one of our own with one of theirs.
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This was a great story. Their service to our military was so much more than just being a flight attendant on their way over or coming home. They saw so much in those soldiers eyes and dealt with some truly emotional issues. I was a nurse in ‘Nam…so I can appreciate their service. I flew over on Continental..We had a flight attendant come to one of our VVA Chapter meeting and tell us about her time. She had many stories. God Bless you all.
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I went and returned on a Flying Tiger plane and remember very well the sensitive and kind treatment from the stewardesses both directions. Today. for the first time, when I read this article, I remembered the cheer that went up spontaneously when we pulled up to about 10,000 feet and realized we were safety out of rocket/mortar danger and headed for home. As a grunt and a company commander from the 1st ID, who had left a few week old daughter and now was headed home to see her and the rest of the finally, I didn’t cry but I damn sure slept well on that plane for the first time in 18 months. I also n=mourned those I had lost there who could not return alive but were shipped home to grief stricken families. God Bless those women who helped me on those hours headed home to start to feel like I might still have some humanity left in me.
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Flew over on Military Transport (think it was a 141) The flight was a complete 3 stooges movie – MATS had trouble w/plane. I remember we had trouble on departure from Travis and then landed at Hickham and had to spend the night awaiting a replacement aircraft. Coming home was great – while everyone mentions the cheering on “wheels up” on departure no one mentions the deafening silence as the aircraft started down the runway on departure until “wheels up”
Daniel Dattpla IIFFV Original Party.
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Outstanding article! I for one of many of us flew Tiger Airlines going and coming. Flew out going from Ft. Lewis, Washington 1970, came home through Oakland Par 8th, 1971. These laddies were tops, in my book. And this aricle brought back many memories, both sad & scared, and delighted and full of joy! Wish I still knew a few of these darlings. I salute you all ladies!!
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I went to Nam aboard a ship which very nicely cut 21 days off my tour. At 11:15PM June 29, 1968 I left Bien Hoa airport on a Trans International DC-10. Not Flying Tigers but nevertheless an unforgettable flight. Thanks for a great story.
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Great article, spot on! I went over in February 1970.
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December 31st, 1968 at the age of 20 we flew from Travis AFB to Anchorage Alaska. Next stop was Yokota Japan. My birthday is January 1st. We crossed over the international dateline and it became the 2nd of January. I missed my 21st birthday completely. I remember one of the attendants wishing my a “HAPPY BIRTHDAY”
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Great article with great info, I remember in 1968 when I went. These ladies were great listeners and very supportive.
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thanks for the ride over and putting up with some of us.
I came back on a USAF flight as I was in a 1-1/2 hip spika cast they called it.
That flight SUCKED., but at least I got out of that chit hole.
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It brought back a lot of memories. When I went over in 66, it was courtesy of the USAF on a C-141–no flight attendants there, just jump seats and the infantry TOE and basic load down the center of the aircraft. When I went back in 1970 out of McCord it was on World Airlines. The flight attendants were as depicted in this article, both going and coming home. A fine bunch of people. Thanks for the ride!
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I remember the flights to and from, but what really sticks in my mind was the blast of hot, humid air that swept through the plane when they opened the doors.
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Interesting. I didn’t use Flying Tigers going to and from my two tours in Vietnam, but I DID fly with them in 1963 going home from a two-year stint in Korea.
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Mr. Fagone’s article is very touching and reminds us that many more people than just we former service men and women are veterans of the Vietnam War. Thank you Flight Attendants!
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Great article .. enjoyed it more than my flight to Vietnam,but, what a wonderful sight when I walked out to the plane to return home. I know there were bad times but your article brought back memories I forgot I had.
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Salute”
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Hard to not have an emotional moment while reading. Marine leaving from Da Nang Jan 31, 1971 to Okinawa Japan, 3 days later back to the World by way of Alaska to Nortin AFB. THe girls (attendants) were great can’t saw much for the people of California . Thank you for taking care of us.
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Very good article. Thank you ladies, I’m one of those boys.
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I went to Nam – not on a Flying Tiger plane, and made it back home in one piece – with no PTSD, only a parasite from the veggies. Thanks so much to all the people that participated in this adventure and thanks for helping us all get there and back.
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I was on those flights, twice over and back although on other carriers. Just reading this article brings tears to my eyes. We all knew that some going would not make it back alive. I have grieved for them ever since. Also those that returned with ptsd, most of us. I remember the silence upon arrival and cheering when wheels went up leaving. Thanks to all of you that attempted to make our journies more comfortable.
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I do not dwell on the negatives of that war , but there will always be a part of those of us that served in Vietnam that we would prefer to live without. When a positive story about the Vietnam experience shows up it helps the healing that many of us need. I flew on Trans Carribiean twice from Travis and experienced the feelings described in the piece. The part I’ll always remember is the wonderful round eyes that tolerated us nervous troops as we headed for the unknown going both over to Vietnam and returning to the US. My tours were 67 to 68 and 68 to 69, My second tour i was stationed in Saigon , my unit had a small crew break room where the transit crews rested between flights. I was lucky enough to have regular contact with the flight crews as they came and went in and out of Tan San Nhut AB . I believe it helped to constantly stay connected with the world and the amazing young ladies that always had a smile and a kind word for the troops regardless of rank or service branch.
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Thank you ladies. I would have been on Flying Tigers returning to the states.
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I remember the Tiger flights and their wonderful crews. I flew out of Travis and came home the same way 3 times during 68-70. I only wish that I could stand before these wonderful ladies. To say” thank you ” which could never cover the range of emotions
Thank you for writing this story, it was way overdue.
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Great, I had the opportunity to fly w/those ladies one great experience,,!
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I remember the flight over and appreciate this article about those that made the trip over to Vietnam enjoyable despite apprehension and anxiety most of us 19 year olds carried with us. Unfortunately for me I returned in a Medevac flight from Japan Yokosuka Naval Hospital.
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Same here. Doc Bunner USNHC HN (E-3)
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This is what I wrote when I had set up my home page on geocities which is now archived:
Feb.3-8, 1968
In transit to Viet Nam via Alaska, Japan and Okinawa. While in Alaska stopping and refueling I was only 1/2 way through a mountain of pancakes, sausage and eggs smothered with Maple syrup when they announce for all out bound corpsmen to report immediately for departure. I about cried having to leave half of what might have been my last meal. Really hurt thinking about that after I was out in the field for a couple of weeks on c-rations.
Addendum: While in transit on the plane, I had an unusual experience that I’d like to share with everyone who reads this. I had read everything in sight that was in the pocket of the seat in front of me. I stopped a stewardess to inquire if they had any other reading material on board. She told me that there were more books in the back of the plane.
I went back and was thumbing through all of the books there trying to find something that would keep me preoccupied from thinking about Viet Nam. The Stewardess came back after about 10-15 minutes and asked me “Do you mind if I ask you a personal question?” I told her “No, not really.”
She then asked me ” Why of all the Corpsmen/servicemen on this plane was I the only one that didn’t ask for her address and telephone number?” I told her that (1.)I was engaged and (2.) It wasn’t my style to go asking every woman that I met to get her address and telephone number, besides I had more important things on my mind. Such as, I didn’t know if I was going to make it back and not wanting to think about that. I was trying to keep from thinking about that.
She very quickly wrote down something and gave it to me. It was her name, address and telephone number with the instructions that if it didn’t work out between me and my fiance after I came back to give her a call because she saw something in me that she had been looking for.(It didn’t work out. More on this later)
I then went back to my seat with a book after putting that slip of paper in my wallet. As I was sitting down one of my friends who considered himself a ladies man, smarted off to me “Oh, you struck out too, didn’t you?” I told him that I had not asked for her address that she gave it to me. He wouldn’t believe me until I showed him the slip of paper. He tried to grab it but I told him “If she had wanted him to have it she would have given it to him.” With that I went back to reading.
Somewhere I know that she wonders if I ever made it back to the States and why I never called. After I got wounded and my things taken from me in triage, I never saw that slip of paper again. I know that I should have written to her while I was in Vietnam, but like things go I had more important thoughts on my mind such as surviving and looking out for my men. “
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I have no comment for this person, He/she is beyond help. But for the ladies I say Thank you I was one of those 18 year old boys that was scared to death. 365 days later. I was one of those Men that you brought back to the World. I was a different person.
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Wonderful and quite a memory
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I remember how kind and understanding these ladies were to we soldiers going to a war zone. Thank you so much angels.
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This article was great…defined exactly how it was when we flew home…I left Vietnam on or about the 5th of January 1968 & Flying Tigers was my carrier! I went to Vietnam on a ship so we had 21 days to prepare our minds unlike the guys traveling by plane that had only a few hours to prepare! I have always appreciated the kindness that was shown by the stewardesses on our trip home, if only the rest could have been as kind! Thank you ladies…
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as a veteran of several tours in the Nam, I always remembered those who catered to us as we flew to and from the zone and their efforts to help us feel comfortable as possible. I often wondered what happened to them and now your story has given closure. thank you
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Welcome Home with many thank you for all your support of the Vietnam veterans!! God bless you all!
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Great story!
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Wonderful article and I went to Vietnam on Flying Tiger Airlines in 1966. I too was older at 25 and remember them well. Those ladies had a very important part in the war and they are to be commended for their service. Thank you and God Bless you all!!!!
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