I don’t remember my family tying a yellow ribbon on the house or a tree while I was in Vietnam. Its popularity started in the late 70s when Iran took American hostages and held them for over a year. Here’s a short article about its history and what it means today.
You just can’t keep a good tradition down. The good stuff will always come back up to the top in the ebb and flow of history. Using yellow ribbons to remember the troops is based on that kind of tradition.
There are a lot of myths and legends surrounding when ribbons were first tied, why the color yellow is used, and where exactly one is supposed to tie the ribbon. Those legends are only a part of the full story.
For centuries, people have used items with special meaning to remember loved ones while they are away, whether or not they’re at war. Using a yellow ribbon in American popular culture first appears in a folk song, “Round Her Neck She Wore A Yellow Ribbon.” We can trace this song as far back as 1838 and as far away as the United Kingdom.
Versions of the song have appeared and reappeared in American culture ever since. It emerged once again in 1917, as the United States entered World War I as “Round Her Neck She Wears a Yeller Ribbon (For Her Lover Who Is Far, Far Away).” Two million Americans would deploy to Europe to fight in the Great War, so this song naturally became culturally important. In 1949, after World War II, the John Wayne western “She Wore a Yellow Ribbon” revived the practice once again, with actress Joanne Dru as Olivia Dandridge donning a yellow ribbon to remember her lover, the Duke, who was a cavalry officer. The movie also included a new version of the song.
In 1973, Tony Orlando and Dawn revived the custom once more with a hit song, “Tie a Yellow Ribbon Round the Ole Oak Tree,”. The song was so popular that radio stations would play it multiple times every day for months. It went around the world and spanned generations. Many people still remember the song today.
Two years later, inspired by the song, a woman named Gail Magruder decorated her porch with yellow ribbons to welcome her husband, Jeb Stuart Magruder, home from prison. News outlets covered the story (and the Magruder porch) because Magruder was one of President Richard Nixon’s operatives. He helped to plan and execute the Watergate break-in and then helped in the attempt to cover it up.
The seminal event that revived the tradition – perhaps for good – is that Penne Laingen watched that night. She was the wife of Bruce Laingen, charge d’affaires at the U.S. embassy in Tehran. They took Laingen and 51 others hostage in Iran on Nov. 4, 1979, and held them for 444 days. Penne tied yellow ribbons to remember her husband and the other hostages.
Soon, the yellow ribbons were showing up all over the United States for the hostages being held in Iran. The families of the hostages formed an action group, Family Liaison Action Group (FLAG), to help bring the hostages home. The symbol for that effort was the yellow ribbon, which was quickly adopted by a sympathetic nation.
Less than a decade later, the United States was facing a new crisis in the Middle East: Operation Desert Shield and Desert Storm. As American troops deployed to expel Iraq from Kuwait, Americans once more tied the yellow ribbons to remember their deployed loved ones, keeping the living tradition alive with a new purpose.
So the yellow ribbon isn’t necessarily just for veterans and troops; it’s to remember anyone who should be home and isn’t, for whatever good reason, until they return. It’s just likely that American troops will most likely be the ones missing from the holidays and other important family events – and they are important to remember until they come home.
This article originally appeared on the website “Together We Served” Dispatches News Letter April 2022. Here’s the direct link:
https://army.togetherweserved.com/army/newsletter2/105/newsletter.html#article5
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I’ve always loved that song by Tony Orlando and Dawn. It tugs at the heart. Tying a yellow ribbon was and is such a dramatic thing to do. It speaks volumes.
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Interesting.
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Hi,
Do I remember Tony Orlando and Dawn? Yes, I do!
I sang that song so many times until I knew every word by heart. It’s an evergreen that will spark memories for years to come.
I’m so glad you have given us the history behind this very meaningful tradition of tying a yellow ribbon or wearing one that people are doing even today.
Thanks, John.
Shalom aleichem
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You are just a little off base on the use of the yellow ribbon during the Vietnam war. I had purchased a new Ford pickup while home in Tacoma Washington on R&R from Vietnam at Christmas in 1972. My wife drove this vehicle after I returned to Vietnam. Shortly after returning to the war zone, a peace agreement had been reached. I was an Army helicopter pilot, I left Vietnam in late March 1973. I was met at SEATAC Airport in Seattle by my lovely wife. Upon opening the door of the truck I was greeted with a large yellow ribbon tied to the steering wheel. “Tie a yellow ribbon around an old oak tree” was a very popular song at the time, especially in Tacoma where Ft Lewis, a large US Army base, is located. I observed many yellow ribbons tied or attached to many things, lamp posts, garage doors, and cars. Many service members were returning home from Vietnam. I can still feel the love and joy that was in the air that day. I would like to return to that day for a short time.
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We also had a popular cadence call about a yellow ribbon. Anybody remember? “Around -The Block – she pushed a baby carriage … “!
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your anecdotal experience was rather unique, you are lucky to have a wife that waited for you. But there was no run on yellow ribbons in America. As a helicopter pilot you were pretty lucky to return home (Unharmed physically?) Your experience is unique to you
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I am still confused s to why our Nation chose to condemn the Soldier / Veteran for the Vietnam War and not the politicians who allowed it to begin and continue so long. The Yellow Ribbon tradition which is the compassion and care about the troops in harm’s way, was universally suspended during Vietnam by an unspoken fiat in society. Even the families for the most part did not display any outward signs that a loved one was in Harm’s Way… Even my own family did not want to know what happened to us in the jungle war depicted by movies like “Platoon, Apocalypse Now, Full Metal Jacket & The Deer Hunter” to name a few. None of which really showed the war as it actually was. It was not until Hal Moore & Joe Galloway’s book was made into a movie that really showed that war… I believe that I will never know the answer to that question, will go to my grave confused about who we really are as a Nation. Especially after these past 14 years…
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The soldiers were not condemned, spat on, run out of town, or otherwise vilified anywhere but in their own minds. Before you watch another minute of Hollywood fiction, read The Spitting Image: Myth, Memory and the Legacy of Vietnam is a 1998 book by Vietnam veteran and sociology professor Jerry Lembcke. The book is an analysis of the widely believed narrative that American soldiers were spat upon and insulted by anti-war
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I will vigorously disagree with you there… I personally was spit on, former high school friends refused to talk to me and referred to me as a violent killer. Our Bus leaving Travis AFB by way of a back gate was met with hundreds of protestors pelting the bus with tomatoes & eggs. The Oakland Army Terminal advised returning soldier to travel in civilian close if they could. I am not sure what world you live in , but certainly not the one I returned to in the mid summer of 1968. MLK was assassinated in the spring of 68, Boby Kennedy was assassinated in June of 68, the DNC Riots in Chicago in August of 68… You cannot tell those Veterans who lived through this stuff that it did not happen
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In my world anecdotal reportage must be thoroughly documented by facts. Facts must consist of hard data verifiable by many witnesses and recorded for posterity. I would like to chsmge my mind about the spitting. I have been looking into spitting for many years. A good place to start now would be to have the names of your high school friends still living so I can contact them. I have so far failed to find a single news story in any media from 1968 about the protests at Oakland that included spitting. I hope you can change my mind.
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“Honoring Jeb Magruder home from prison” for trying to destroy our elections? What next, honoring the 1/6 attack on the capital? Good lord….
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Depression towards the living vets.
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Very informative article. Thank you for posting.
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No yellow ribbons…no thank you…not even a “where have you been”. It was like I had been away at summer camp, nothing more.
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excellent article great read
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